The Signs by Tara Swart: Your Complete Guide to Manifesting Through Neuroscience
Have you ever noticed a pattern of coincidences in your life and wondered if the universe was trying to tell you something? Or perhaps you’ve dismissed these moments as random chance? Dr Tara Swart’s
The Signs bridges the gap between spiritual intuition and hard science, showing us how our brains are wired to recognise patterns and create the reality we focus on.
As a neuroscientist and leadership coach, Swart brings a unique perspective to manifestation. She’s not asking you to believe in magic. She’s showing you the brain science behind why setting intentions and paying attention to signs actually works.
This deep dive will walk you through the key concepts, practical applications, and life-changing insights from
The Signs. Whether you’re a sceptic or a believer, you’ll find actionable strategies backed by neuroscience that can transform how you approach your goals and dreams.
Understanding the Science Behind Signs
Before we jump into the practical stuff, let’s get clear on what Swart means by “signs” and why your brain is primed to notice them.
The concept isn’t about mystical forces sending you messages. It’s about something called the Reticular Activating System (RAS). This is a bundle of nerves in your brainstem that acts like a filter for all the information bombarding your senses. Without it, you’d be overwhelmed by every sight, sound, and sensation around you.
Here’s where it gets interesting: your RAS is programmable. When you consciously decide something is important to you, your RAS starts filtering information to show you opportunities, people, and resources related to that goal. It’s why you suddenly see your dream car everywhere after you decide you want to buy one.
Swart argues that what we call “signs” are actually our brains becoming attuned to possibilities we’ve primed ourselves to notice. The universe isn’t sending you messages. Your brain is getting better at spotting what matters.
This distinction is crucial because it puts you in control. You’re not waiting for fate to intervene. You’re actively training your attention to work for you.
The Action Board vs Vision Board
If you’ve spent any time in the self-help world, you’ve probably heard of vision boards. Swart takes this concept and gives it a neuroscientific upgrade with what she calls an “action board.”
The difference? A vision board is passive. You stick up pictures of things you want and hope they manifest. An action board combines visual imagery with concrete steps you’re taking to make those images reality.
Let’s say your goal is to write a novel. On a traditional vision board, you might have a picture of a bestseller list or a stack of books. On an action board, you’d include that image alongside your daily word count tracker, pictures of your writing space, images representing research you’re doing, and perhaps a photo of the writing course you’ve enrolled in.
The neuroscience here is solid. Your brain doesn’t distinguish much between imagination and reality. When you visualise something vividly and pair it with action, you’re creating neural pathways that make the behaviour easier to repeat. You’re literally rewiring your brain.
How to create your action board:
- Choose one to three major goals (not ten, your RAS can’t prioritise everything)
- Find images that represent the end result you want
- Add images or items that represent actions you’re taking now
- Include something that connects to the feeling you’ll have when you achieve this goal
- Place it somewhere you’ll see it daily
- Update it every few months as your actions and goals evolve
The key is specificity. “Be successful” is too vague. “Launch my coaching business with five paying clients by June” gives your RAS something concrete to work with.
Intuition Isn’t Magic—It’s Pattern Recognition
One of the most compelling parts of
The Signs is how Swart demystifies intuition. That “gut feeling” you get isn’t some mystical sixth sense. It’s your brain rapidly processing patterns based on past experiences and knowledge you might not consciously remember.
Think about a time you met someone and immediately felt uneasy, even though they seemed perfectly nice on the surface. Later, perhaps, your instinct proved right. That wasn’t psychic ability. Your brain picked up micro-expressions, body language, tone of voice, and other subtle cues that triggered memories of similar situations from your past.
The problem is we’ve been taught to dismiss intuition as irrational. We override it with logic, often to our detriment. Swart argues that intuition and logic should work together, not against each other.
Your intuition is especially strong in areas where you have experience. A seasoned teacher can often sense when a student is struggling before they raise their hand. A trader might feel something’s off about a deal before they can articulate why. That’s expertise stored in the unconscious mind, firing warning signals.
Strengthening your intuition:
For instance, if you’re trying to decide between two job offers, you might logically list the pros and cons. That’s useful. But also pay attention to how your body feels when you imagine yourself in each role. Does one make your chest feel tight? Does another create a sense of expansion? That physical response is your intuition speaking.
Keep a journal of times you ignored your intuition and what happened. Also note when you followed it. Over time, you’ll recognise your personal intuitive signals and learn to trust them more.
Practice meditation or mindfulness. When your conscious mind is constantly chattering, it drowns out intuitive signals. Even five minutes of quiet daily can help you tune in.
The Manifesting Triangle: Intention, Attention, Action
Swart introduces what she calls the manifesting triangle. This is the framework that makes the whole system work, and it’s where most people go wrong with manifestation.
Intention is where you start. This is getting crystal clear about what you want and why you want it. Notice I said “why.” If you want a promotion because you think it’ll make your parents proud but you actually hate the work, your intention is misaligned. Your brain will resist because part of you knows this isn’t what you truly want.
Attention is about training your RAS to spot opportunities. This is where the action board comes in, along with practices like visualisation and affirmations. You’re essentially programming your filter.
Action is the bit that separates Swart’s approach from fluffy manifestation. You can’t just sit on your sofa visualising money and expect it to appear. You need to take concrete steps, even small ones, towards your goal. Action creates momentum and gives the universe (or rather, your brain and the people around you) something to work with.
Here’s a real-world example: Sarah wanted to transition from corporate law to environmental advocacy. Her intention was clear—she wanted meaningful work aligned with her values. For attention, she created an action board with images of environmental organisations, lawyers working in the field, and nature scenes. She also set a Google alert for “environmental law jobs” so her phone would literally send her signs.
For action, she didn’t quit her job immediately. She started small: attending environmental law webinars, reaching out to people on LinkedIn working in the field, and volunteering for a local conservation group on weekends. Within six months, someone from her volunteer group mentioned their organisation was hiring. She applied and got the job.
Was that the universe sending signs? Or was it Sarah’s primed attention spotting an opportunity she’d created through her actions? Does it matter? The result is the same.
Attachment vs Intention: Learning to Let Go
This is where things get paradoxical, and it’s a concept many people struggle with. Swart emphasises that you need to be clear about your intention but unattached to the specific outcome.
Attachment creates anxiety. When you’re desperately clinging to one specific result, you miss alternative paths that might be even better. You also broadcast desperation, which isn’t attractive to others and can sabotage your efforts.
Think about dating. If you’re attached to making a specific person like you, you might come across as needy or inauthentic. If you’re clear on your intention (wanting a loving relationship) but unattached to it being with this particular person, you’re more relaxed, genuine, and paradoxically more attractive.
This doesn’t mean you don’t care about your goals. It means you trust the process and remain open to how they might manifest.
Let’s say your intention is financial security. You might be attached to the idea that this must come through a specific job promotion. But what if an unexpected freelance opportunity appears that could earn you more money with better flexibility? If you’re too attached to the promotion route, you might dismiss this alternative.
Practising non-attachment:
Hold your goals lightly. Imagine you’re carrying them in an open palm, not a clenched fist. This mental image can help when you notice yourself becoming anxious about outcomes.
Ask yourself regularly: “Am I working towards this goal, or am I worrying about this goal?” Work is productive. Worry is attachment masquerading as action.
Set intentions for how you want to feel, not just what you want to have. If you want a new house because you think it’ll make you feel secure and happy, focus on cultivating those feelings now. This reduces attachment to the specific form your goal takes.
The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Manifestation
Swart is a big advocate for emotional intelligence as a key factor in recognising and acting on signs. When you’re emotionally reactive, you miss opportunities. When you’re emotionally aware, you can respond wisely.
Emotional intelligence includes self-awareness (knowing what you’re feeling and why), self-regulation (managing those emotions), motivation (being driven by internal rather than external factors), empathy (understanding others’ emotions), and social skills (managing relationships).
Why does this matter for manifestation? Because opportunities often come through other people. If you lack empathy or social skills, you might not recognise when someone is offering you a chance or trying to help. If you can’t self-regulate, you might react defensively when feedback could redirect you towards your goal.
Consider this scenario: You’re at a networking event hoping to meet potential clients. Someone gives you gentle feedback that your pitch is confusing. If you’re emotionally intelligent, you’ll thank them and ask clarifying questions. If you’re not, you might get defensive and miss the sign that you need to refine your message.
Emotional intelligence also helps you distinguish between fear that’s protecting you and fear that’s limiting you. Sometimes your gut says “no” because something’s genuinely wrong. Other times, it’s just fear of change or failure. EQ helps you tell the difference.
Building emotional intelligence:
Start naming your emotions with more precision. Instead of just “bad,” get specific. Are you frustrated? Disappointed? Anxious? Jealous? The more accurately you can identify emotions, the better you can understand their message.
Practice the pause. When you feel a strong emotion, take a breath before responding. This creates space between feeling and action, where wisdom lives.
Seek feedback from trusted people about how you come across. Sometimes there’s a gap between how we think we’re being perceived and how others actually see us. Closing that gap is emotional intelligence in action.
Neuroplasticity: Your Brain Can Change at Any Age
One of the most hopeful messages in
The Signs is that your brain remains plastic throughout your life. Neuroplasticity means you can literally rewire your brain by changing your thoughts and behaviours.
This is revolutionary for manifestation because it means you’re not stuck with the thought patterns you’ve had your whole life. If you grew up with scarcity thinking, you can develop abundance thinking. If you’ve always been pessimistic, you can train optimism.
The catch? It takes consistent effort. Your brain prefers efficient shortcuts, so it defaults to established neural pathways. Creating new ones requires repetition. This is why affirmations and visualisation work when done consistently—you’re building new neural highways.
Swart recommends thinking of your brain like a muscle. You wouldn’t expect to go to the gym once and have a six-pack. Similarly, you can’t meditate once or visualise once and expect permanent change. But do it daily for a few months? Your brain physically changes.
Research shows that London taxi drivers, who must memorise thousands of streets, have larger hippocampi (the brain region involved in spatial memory) than the average person. Their brains physically adapted to the demands placed on them. Your brain can do the same for whatever you’re focusing on.
Leveraging neuroplasticity:
Choose one new thought pattern you want to develop. Maybe it’s “I am capable of learning new things” to replace “I’m too old to change.” Write it down and say it out loud daily, especially when you catch yourself thinking the old thought.
Pair new thoughts with new actions. If you’re trying to develop confidence, don’t just affirm “I am confident.” Do small things that build actual competence, which creates genuine confidence. Take a class, have a difficult conversation, try something new.
Be patient. Neuroscientists suggest it takes 66 days on average to form a new habit. Some complex changes take longer. Commit to at least three months of consistent practice before evaluating whether something’s working.
Signs, Synchronicity, and Selective Attention
Let’s address the elephant in the room: are coincidences meaningful, or are we just noticing what we’re primed to see?
Swart’s answer is refreshingly practical. It doesn’t matter. Whether synchronicities are the universe conspiring in your favour or simply your RAS doing its job, the effect is the same. You notice opportunities and take action on them.
Carl Jung coined the term “synchronicity” to describe meaningful coincidences that seem to defy probability. You think of an old friend, and they call five minutes later. You need a specific book, and someone leaves it on a train seat next to you.
Sceptics call this confirmation bias or selective attention. You remember the times coincidences happened and forget the hundreds of times they didn’t. There’s truth to that. But Swart argues we can use this tendency deliberately.
If your brain is going to notice patterns anyway, why not prime it to notice patterns that serve you? This is where the action board and clear intentions come in. You’re essentially giving your selective attention a job.
Working with synchronicity:
When you notice a coincidence, don’t just marvel at it. Ask yourself: “What action could I take based on this?” If you’re thinking about starting a podcast and then overhear someone talking about their successful show, that’s your cue to introduce yourself and ask questions.
Keep a synchronicity journal. Write down meaningful coincidences when they happen. Over time, you might spot larger patterns about when and how they occur for you.
Stay open to weird connections. Your brain is brilliant at linking disparate information in creative ways. That random conversation at a coffee shop might contain the insight you need for a work problem. Don’t dismiss things because they seem unrelated at first glance.
The Importance of Physical Wellbeing in Manifestation
Swart doesn’t separate mind from body, and neither should you. Your physical state directly affects your brain’s ability to recognise opportunities and take action.
When you’re sleep-deprived, stressed, or poorly nourished, your brain shifts into survival mode. The prefrontal cortex (responsible for decision-making and spotting opportunities) gets less blood flow, while the amygdala (your threat detection centre) becomes overactive. In this state, you’re more likely to see problems than possibilities.
This is why manifestation often fails for people in chronic stress. It’s not that they’re not visualising hard enough. Their biology is working against them.
Basic physical wellbeing creates the foundation for everything else. You can’t think clearly, act decisively, or notice signs when you’re running on caffeine and four hours of sleep.
Physical practices that support manifestation:
Sleep is non-negotiable. Swart recommends 7-9 hours. If you think you can function on less, you’re likely experiencing the cognitive impairment that makes you think you’re fine when you’re not. Set a bedtime and protect it.
Eat to support your brain. Omega-3 fatty acids, found in fish, walnuts, and flaxseed, literally build your brain cell membranes. B vitamins support neurotransmitter production. Stable blood sugar prevents the mood crashes that derail your intentions. You don’t need a perfect diet, but you do need adequate nutrition.
Move your body. Exercise increases BDNF (brain-derived neurotrophic factor), which helps build new neural connections. It also reduces cortisol and improves mood. Even a 20-minute walk makes a difference.
Manage stress. Chronic stress shrinks your hippocampus and makes your amygdala overactive. This combination impairs memory and makes you more reactive. Find what works for you: meditation, time in nature, therapy, yoga, or simply saying no to things that drain you.
10 Tips and Tricks from The Signs
Now that we’ve covered the theory, let’s get practical. Here are ten actionable strategies you can start implementing today.
1. Create Your Action Board
Don’t just think about your goals. Make them visible. Get a corkboard or poster board and fill it with images representing both your desired outcomes and the actions you’re taking. Update it quarterly to keep it fresh and relevant.
Example: Maria wanted to become a yoga teacher. Her action board included a photo of herself doing yoga, a picture of a yoga studio where she wanted to teach, her teacher training certificate application, screenshots of yoga philosophy books she was reading, and a calendar marking her training weekend dates. Seeing this daily kept her motivated through the challenging training period.
2. Set a Daily Intention
Each morning, before you check your phone, set one clear intention for the day. Not a to-do list. An intention for how you want to show up or what you want to attract.
Example: Instead of “get through the difficult meeting with my boss,” try “I intend to communicate clearly and listen with an open mind.” This primes your brain to approach the situation differently.
3. Practice the Two-Minute Visualisation
Twice daily, spend two minutes vividly imagining yourself living your desired reality. Engage all your senses. What do you see, hear, feel, even smell? The more detailed, the better.
Example: If you want to move to the countryside, don’t just picture a cottage. Imagine the crunch of gravel under your feet, the smell of morning dew, the sound of birds, the taste of coffee on your porch. Your brain responds to sensory detail.
4. Follow the Breadcrumbs
When you notice a sign or synchronicity, take immediate action, even if it’s small. Signs without action are just interesting coincidences.
Example: David kept seeing references to pottery everywhere. Instead of just noting it, he googled pottery classes in his area and signed up for a taster session. It turned out to be a passion that eventually became a side business. None of that would have happened if he’d just thought “huh, that’s weird” and moved on.
5. Clear Physical Clutter
Your environment affects your mental clarity. A cluttered space creates a cluttered mind that can’t spot opportunities as easily. You don’t need to be minimalist, but you do need order.
Example: James couldn’t focus on his business goals until he cleared out his spare room, which had become a dumping ground for years. Once he created an actual office space, ideas started flowing and he made more progress in three months than the previous year.
6. Audit Your Social Circle
You become like the people you spend time with. Swart is blunt about this: if your friends are cynical, negative, or unsupportive of your growth, they’re actively working against your manifestation.
Example: Rachel realised her weekly drinks with colleagues always devolved into complaining about their jobs. She started declining some invitations and instead joined a women’s business networking group. Within six months, through connections in that new circle, she found a role she actually loved.
7. Use the Evening Reflection
Before bed, recall three good things that happened that day and why they happened. This trains your brain to spot opportunities and recognise your role in creating them.
Example: Instead of “I got a compliment on my presentation,” reflect on “I got a compliment because I practised three times and asked for feedback beforehand.” This reinforces that your actions create results.
8. Create a ‘Signs Journal’
Keep a dedicated notebook for recording synchronicities, intuitive hits, and progress towards your goals. Reviewing it monthly shows you patterns you’d otherwise miss.
Example: Sophie’s journal revealed that her best creative ideas came after morning walks. She’d never connected the dots until she saw it written down. She started protecting that morning walk time religiously, and her creative output increased significantly.
9. Practice the ‘What Would Future Me Do?’ Question
When facing a decision, ask what the version of you who has already achieved your goal would choose. This helps you act from your intention rather than your current circumstances.
Example: When Tom was deciding whether to invest in a business coach, his current self thought it was too expensive. But future successful Tom would absolutely invest in expert guidance. He hired the coach, and the ROI was significant.
10. Schedule ‘Opportunity Blocks’
Put time in your calendar for serendipity. This might mean attending events, taking a different route to work, or just having unstructured time where you’re not rushing from task to task.
Example: Linda blocked out every Tuesday afternoon as ‘growth time.’ She used it to read, explore new parts of the city, attend talks, or meet new people. The opportunities that arose from this protected time transformed her career in ways she couldn’t have predicted.
Common Mistakes People Make with Manifestation
Even with good intentions, people often sabotage their own manifestation efforts. Here are the biggest pitfalls Swart identifies.
Mistake 1: Being vague about what you want
“I want to be happy” or “I want success” doesn’t give your RAS anything to work with. Get specific. What does happiness look like for you? What metrics define success in your context?
Mistake 2: Focusing on what you don’t want
Your brain doesn’t process negatives well. If you constantly think “I don’t want to be poor,” your brain focuses on poverty. Reframe to “I’m building financial security.”
Mistake 3: Ignoring the action piece
Visualisation without action is daydreaming. The universe can’t deliver Amazon packages of opportunity if you never open the door.
Mistake 4: Giving up too soon
Neural rewiring takes time. Most people quit after two weeks when they don’t see dramatic results. Give it at least 90 days of consistent practice.
Mistake 5: Trying to manifest too many things at once
Your RAS can’t prioritise everything. Choose one to three major focuses. Once those are in motion, you can add more.
Mistake 6: Not dealing with limiting beliefs
If you’re affirming “I am wealthy” while deep down believing “money is evil” or “people like me don’t get rich,” the limiting belief wins. You need to address the underlying block first.
The Neuroscience of Gratitude
Swart dedicates significant attention to gratitude, not as a spiritual practice but as a brain-training tool. When you actively appreciate what you have, you’re doing several things neurologically.
First, you’re activating the reward pathways in your brain, releasing dopamine and serotonin. This creates a positive feedback loop. Your brain starts seeking out more things to appreciate because it feels good.
Second, you’re training attention. A gratitude practice is essentially attention training. You’re teaching your brain to notice the good things instead of defaulting to threat detection (our evolutionary tendency).
Third, you’re reducing activity in the amygdala. Gratitude and anxiety can’t coexist in the same moment. When you’re genuinely appreciating something, stress responses decrease.
This isn’t about toxic positivity or pretending everything’s fine when it’s not. It’s about balanced attention. Yes, notice problems so you can solve them. But also notice what’s working so you can build on it.
Gratitude practices that work:
The classic three-things-daily practice is effective, but only if you do it with real feeling. Don’t just list things mechanically. Take a moment to actually feel grateful for each one.
Write gratitude letters. Pick someone who’s positively impacted your life and write them a letter explaining exactly how and why. You don’t even have to send it (though it’s lovely if you do). The act of writing it creates the neural benefit.
Take gratitude walks. As you walk, name things you’re grateful for with each step. The combination of movement and appreciation is powerful for mood and clarity.
When Signs Seem to Contradict Each Other
Here’s something Swart addresses that most manifestation books ignore: what do you do when you’re getting mixed signals?
You might be taking action towards a goal and see some encouraging signs, but also face obstacles and setbacks. Does that mean you should quit? Or is it a test of commitment?
There’s no simple answer, which is frustrating but honest. This is where intuition and emotional intelligence come in. You need to distinguish between resistance (which is normal when you’re growing) and misalignment (which suggests you’re pursuing something that’s not right for you).
Questions to ask when signs seem contradictory:
Am I experiencing growth discomfort or genuine misery? Growth often feels uncomfortable. You’re stretching beyond your current capacity. But it shouldn’t make you physically ill or deeply miserable.
Are obstacles revealing a better path, or just testing my commitment? Sometimes what looks like a closed door is actually a redirection. Jane was devastated when she didn’t get into her first-choice university. She went to her second choice, where she met her future business partner. The “failure” was necessary for the bigger success.
Is this my dream or someone else’s that I’ve adopted? If you’re pursuing something because you think you should, or because it would impress others, obstacles might be your intuition’s way of saying this isn’t actually what you want.
Have I given this enough time and effort? Some things take longer than expected. Giving up after the first setback isn’t persistence. But flogging a dead horse for years isn’t wisdom either. The distinction requires honest self-assessment.
Integrating The Signs into Daily Life
The real power of Swart’s approach is that it’s designed to become part of your daily routine, not something you do occasionally when you remember.
Start small. Don’t try to implement everything at once. Pick two or three practices that resonate most and commit to them for a month. Once they’re habitual, add more.
Morning and evening bookends work well. Morning intention-setting and visualisation prime your day. Evening reflection and gratitude consolidate learning and train your attention.
Link new practices to existing habits. Put your action board where you make your morning coffee so you see it naturally. Keep your signs journal on your bedside table so reviewing it becomes part of your bedtime routine.
Be flexible. If a practice isn’t working for you, adapt it. Swart gives frameworks, not rigid rules. The goal is to find what helps you recognise opportunities and take aligned action.
Track your progress. It’s easy to think nothing’s happening, especially in the early weeks. Writing down small wins, synchronicities, and actions taken creates a visible record of momentum.
The Role of Faith and Scepticism
One of the refreshing things about
The Signs is that Swart doesn’t require you to believe in anything supernatural. You can be a complete sceptic and still benefit from these practices.
If you want to frame it as the universe responding to your intentions, go ahead. If you prefer to see it as brain science and probability, that works too. The mechanisms are the same.
That said, being open-minded helps. If you’re rigidly committed to believing that nothing is meaningful and everything is random, you might miss opportunities because you’ve decided they can’t exist.
Swart suggests what she calls “pragmatic faith.” You don’t need to believe with certainty. You just need to act as if these principles might work and see what happens. Treat it as an experiment.
For sceptics:
Focus on the neuroscience. You don’t have to believe in signs to accept that your RAS filters information based on your priorities, or that visualisation creates neural pathways. The science is solid.
Track results objectively. Keep notes on what you’re doing and what outcomes you’re seeing. Let the evidence speak for itself.
For believers:
Ground your spirituality in action. Faith without works is dead, as the saying goes. Your belief should motivate you to act, not replace action.
Be discerning. Just because you’re open to signs doesn’t mean every random thing is meaningful. Develop the wisdom to know what deserves attention.
Dealing with Disappointment and Setbacks
This is the bit that’s missing from most manifestation content, and Swart doesn’t shy away from it. What happens when you do everything “right” and it still doesn’t work out?
First, acknowledge that disappointment is valid. Don’t spiritual-bypass your feelings with platitudes about everything happening for a reason. Feel it, process it, then move forward.
Second, look for the lesson or redirection. Not in a victim-blaming way (“you didn’t manifest it because you didn’t believe enough”), but practically. What can you learn? Where might this setback be pointing you?
Third, check your attachment. Intense disappointment often signals we were attached to a specific outcome rather than open to how our intention might manifest. This is information for next time.
Fourth, keep practising anyway. One disappointment doesn’t invalidate the entire approach. You don’t stop eating healthy when one meal doesn’t make you immediately thin.
Example: Chris worked for months towards a job he was certain was his next step. He got to the final round and wasn’t chosen. He was gutted. But in processing the disappointment, he realised he’d been primarily motivated by the prestige of the company, not the actual work. Three months later, a different opportunity appeared that was a much better fit for what he actually enjoyed. He wouldn’t have been available for it if he’d gotten the first job.
The Science of Belief
Why does believing in your goals make them more likely to happen? It’s not magic. It’s motivation, attention, and behaviour change.
When you genuinely believe something is possible, you’re more likely to take the consistent action required to make it happen. You also persevere longer in the face of setbacks because you expect them to be temporary rather than proof of impossibility.
Your beliefs literally shape your brain through neuroplasticity. If you believe you’re bad at maths, you’ll avoid situations that could build maths skills, confirming your belief. If you believe you can improve, you’ll engage with practice, creating neural pathways that make maths easier.
This is why Swart emphasises choosing empowering beliefs deliberately. You’re going to have beliefs about yourself and what’s possible anyway. Might as well choose ones that serve you.
The catch is that you can’t just paste a positive belief over a strong negative one and expect it to stick. If you deeply believe you’re unlovable, affirming “I am lovable” will create cognitive dissonance that feels false.
Instead, you need to bridge the gap. Find a belief you can actually accept that’s closer to where you want to be. “I am learning to love myself” might be that bridge. Or “I’ve been lovable to the wrong people; I’m now attracting the right ones.”
As you act from that bridge belief and accumulate evidence supporting it, you can move to increasingly positive beliefs that feel genuine.
Creating a Personal Manifestation System
After finishing
The Signs, the question is: how do you integrate this into a system that works for you?
Everyone’s system will look different based on personality, lifestyle, and goals. But here’s a template to get you started.
Morning (10-15 minutes):
- Look at your action board while having your first drink
- Set your intention for the day (what you want to attract or how you want to show up)
- Two minutes of visualisation
- Optional: review your goals and today’s aligned actions
Throughout the day:
- Notice signs and synchronicities
- When you spot one, take immediate action if possible
- Practice the pause before reacting to challenging situations
- Check in with your body and intuition when making decisions
Evening (5-10 minutes):
- Journal any synchronicities or progress
- Three good things that happened and why they happened
- Brief reflection: Did your actions today align with your intentions?
- Optional: Tomorrow’s main priority
Weekly:
- Review your signs journal for patterns
- Update your action board if needed
- Check progress towards goals and adjust approach if necessary
Monthly:
- Deep dive into progress: What’s working? What’s not?
- Update or refine your intentions based on what you’re learning
- Consider whether your goals still align with what you truly want
Remember: This is a starting point, not a prescription. Adapt freely. The best system is the one you’ll actually use consistently.
Final Thoughts: From Theory to Practice
The brilliance of
The Signs is that it makes manifestation accessible without dumbing it down. Swart respects both your intelligence and your intuition. She doesn’t ask you to suspend critical thinking or believe in anything that contradicts science.
What she does ask is that you take these principles seriously enough to test them. Not for a day or a week, but for a solid three months of consistent practice. Give your brain time to rewire. Give your attention time to retrain. Give your actions time to compound.
The reality is that most people won’t do this. They’ll read the book, feel inspired, maybe create an action board, and then slip back into old patterns within a fortnight. That’s not a criticism. Behaviour change is hard.
But if you’re reading this deep dive, chances are you’re genuinely interested in creating change. So here’s my challenge: pick three practices from this post that resonate most. Write them down. Schedule them into your life for the next 90 days. Don’t debate whether they’ll work. Just do them and see what happens.
Track your results honestly. Notice what shifts. Pay attention to opportunities that appear. Take action when they do.
The signs are always there. The question is whether you’ve trained your attention to notice them and your courage to act on them. That’s entirely within your control.
Your brain is waiting to be programmed. Your attention is ready to be directed. Your actions can start today. The universe, or your RAS, or whatever you want to call it, will meet you halfway.
The real magic isn’t in getting signs. It’s in becoming the kind of person who recognises them and has the courage to follow where they lead.
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The Signs? Take this 10-question quiz to find out. No cheating now—scroll down for answers at the very bottom!
1. What is the Reticular Activating System (RAS)? a) A spiritual energy centre in the body b) A bundle of nerves in the brainstem that filters information c) A meditation technique developed by Tara Swart d) A type of vision board
2. What’s the main difference between a vision board and an action board? a) Vision boards are bigger b) Action boards include concrete steps you’re taking, not just desired outcomes c) Vision boards are digital and action boards are physical d) There is no difference
3. According to Swart, intuition is best described as: a) A mystical sixth sense that some people are born with b) Random guesses that sometimes happen to be right c) Rapid pattern recognition based on past experiences d) Something that only works for women
4. What are the three points of the manifesting triangle? a) Hope, faith, and love b) Mind, body, and spirit c) Intention, attention, and action d) Past, present, and future
5. How many major goals should you focus on at once for optimal RAS functioning? a) As many as possible b) One to three c) At least ten d) Exactly seven
6. What does neuroplasticity mean? a) Your brain stops changing after age 25 b) Your brain can physically rewire itself throughout your life c) Some people’s brains are naturally plastic and others aren’t d) Brain cells are made of plastic
7. Why does physical wellbeing matter for manifestation? a) The universe only rewards people who exercise b) When you’re sleep-deprived and stressed, your brain shifts to survival mode and misses opportunities c) You need to look good to manifest good things d) It doesn’t actually matter
8. What should you do when you notice a sign or synchronicity? a) Just observe it and move on b) Tell everyone about it on social media c) Take immediate action, even if it’s small d) Wait for more signs to confirm it
9. According to Swart, why does gratitude work? a) It makes the universe like you more b) It activates reward pathways, trains attention, and reduces amygdala activity c) It’s just positive thinking with a fancy name d) It doesn’t actually work
10. What’s the recommended time frame to consistently practice these techniques before evaluating if they work?a) One week b) Two weeks c) One month d) At least 90 days (three months)
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Quiz Answers
- b) A bundle of nerves in the brainstem that filters information — The RAS acts as your brain’s filter, helping you focus on what you’ve determined is important whilst filtering out irrelevant information.
- b) Action boards include concrete steps you’re taking, not just desired outcomes — Unlike traditional vision boards that only show end results, action boards combine imagery of your goals with visual representations of the actions you’re taking right now to achieve them.
- c) Rapid pattern recognition based on past experiences — Intuition isn’t magical. It’s your unconscious mind rapidly processing patterns, micro-expressions, and information based on your accumulated knowledge and past experiences.
- c) Intention, attention, and action — These three elements work together: intention sets the direction, attention (through your RAS) helps you spot opportunities, and action creates momentum and results.
- b) One to three — Your RAS can’t effectively prioritise everything. Focusing on one to three major goals allows your brain to filter information effectively and spot relevant opportunities.
- b) Your brain can physically rewire itself throughout your life — Neuroplasticity means your brain remains capable of creating new neural pathways at any age through consistent thoughts and behaviours.
- b) When you’re sleep-deprived and stressed, your brain shifts to survival mode and misses opportunities — Physical wellbeing directly affects brain function. Poor sleep and high stress impair the prefrontal cortex whilst activating the amygdala, making you more likely to see threats than opportunities.
- c) Take immediate action, even if it’s small — Signs without action are just interesting coincidences. The power comes from acting on what you notice, even if that action is as small as making a phone call or sending an email.
- b) It activates reward pathways, trains attention, and reduces amygdala activity — Gratitude has measurable neurological effects. It releases dopamine and serotonin, trains your brain to notice positive things, and reduces stress responses.
- d) At least 90 days (three months) — Neural rewiring takes time. Most people quit too soon. Swart recommends consistent practice for at least three months before evaluating whether the techniques are working for you.